• MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Hopefully as they age they realize the friend zone never existed and these people either never saw them as potential mates/dates or they did and the guy did something to change that.

    • Sc00ter@lemm.ee
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      2 months ago

      Eh i would say the friend zone absolutely exists.

      My wife tried to friend zone me early in our relationship. She wanted to date around and still be friends with me. I told her that wasnt ok with me because i had stronger feelings for her than that and id be miserable. I cut ties.

      A few months later she asked me on a date out of the blue. I spoke my peace that to me, this was a real date. Well, that was almost 13 years ago and we just had our 9th wedding anniversary

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        2 months ago

        I refer you to the second part “or the guy did something to change that”. You walking away made her reconsider how she valued you.