Why or why not?

  • ileftreddit@piefed.social
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    20 days ago

    I’m a cis straight guy and I find trans women and trans men attractive… maybe I’m not so straight…

    • dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      20 days ago

      depends on how you’re looking at them, tbh

      it makes sense as a straight guy to be attracted to trans women, I don’t consider it gay to be attracted to women (though I understand the confusion about this, I assume you’re not into trans women who haven’t transitioned, presumably you are attracted to women who are feminine and look like women…)

      but to be attracted to a trans man definitely raises questions about how you see them. Are you attracted to a trans man like Buck Angel for example, or is it mostly early transition trans men who are androgynous and still might be mistaken for women?