I’ve been in a few situations where I need substantial help from strangers, and some have offered to help (most haven’t followed through) but I just can’t do it.
For example someone offered to help me move and I just feel super uncomfortable about it to the point where I’d rather risk something bad happening to me. Like I feel super awkward and uncomfortable accepting huge favours from strangers
Someone even offered a place to stay for me with my pets but I can’t accept it cause I feel way too awkward and like I owe them or something, like I have a huge fear and anxiety about it
Like I just feel like a disgusting parasite wasting their time and energy and it’s also humiliating
Is that normal?
Wdym by uncalled for? Like… idk I can’t control how I feel 😭
Plus since so many people flopped maybe they really aren’t ok with helping
By uncalled for I mean there’s not really a factual and warranted reason for it.
I tried to present the two sides opposed to each other. How many people feel vs how that’s usually not factually appropriate. Doesn’t magically change that we feel that way of course.