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Cake day: January 9th, 2024

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  • Unfortunately, having a job is horrible for your privacy. You’re required to provide full personal details to be hired to an employer with dubious security who forces you to sign up for accounts with likely either Microsoft or Google. Depending on your position you either need to use your personal phone for work (and your work accounts are easily tied to your phone), or carry a work phone with you, which you have even less control over than normal.

    That isn’t really helpful.

    I think to your original question, it’s more about sanitizing what is published. On LinkedIn and Indeed. Whenever possible apply directly through the website. But everywhere is going to require similar levels of personal information. As far as being worried about spam; using another email account is probably easiest. You don’t want to risk missing an important email while you are looking.













  • “That doesn’t work for me.”

    Also,

    “You creating and mandating a plan for our future that doesn’t involve discussing my wants and needs shows that you don’t value them”

    I don’t have any idea what the rest of your relationship is actually like. From the little here, sounds like you’re ready to move on, and so is she. If she’s giving you that ultimatum from another country she may also be hoping you do the hard part and break up with her, relieving her of whatever feelings of guilt that might be associated. Remember though… No guilt is necessary from either of you to move on. You want different things from the time that you have, and that’s ok.