ragingHungryPanda

as opposed to legal street racing?

i feel like including the word “illegal” is seeding the question a bit, like it’s trying to draw our attention to a particular option.

but my vote would be drunk driving (also illegal), as a lot more people are killed by drunk driving than racing

so the ratio is still the same?

you’ll soon become the un-arguable baddie

that’s not true at all. you’d just get more science for the factory to grow.

I got tricked by one the other day. It even had the sora logo on it, but I thought that was just another website.

lemm.ee shutdown for that reason

i would use it - I suck at finding stuff on mastodon

congratulations! I wish you both the greatest happiness!

that was my ancient literature class in college

cloudflare happened first and I haven’t been bothered to change it yet

I switched to it because the ISP blocked ports 80/443. It was good and things actually got a bit faster with them handling SSL certs.

but one thing to note is that the free tier has a 100MB file limit. I got around some of that by using the tail scale vpn with a custom domain entry to point to the local network.

I did these changes (wire guard to tail scale, dns to tunnels, etc) at different times, which is why things aren’t very consistent.

if you’re on your home network the address will be the IP address and, if you’re not using a reverse proxy, the port the app runs on.

with reverse proxy: http/s://192.168.8.2 or whatever without: http/s://<IP address>:3000 or whatever the port is

I try to have 3 places in mind for a change of scenery, and if there’s something going on at at least one spot, that can take the pressure off of talking. i try to sit next to the person, like at a bar top, instead of across because that just feels like a job interview or something.

aside from that, engaging conversation. Probe for interest and if they reciprocate, then you can go a bit further until they don’t or you’re making out.

funny thing though, I started planning some of my outings with friends like I was doing a date. Instead of just going to the bar and “yyyyup”-ing for a couple hours, I try to find a shoe or something going on and then change locations to something else interesting. By the end my buds are commenting about how much fun they had.

so plan the date around interesting things or environments, or just something going on or something to look at. Then just have fun and relax.

Also, I read something from one of the old dating sites where they said that a sushi date is 27% more likely to get a second date. All of my sushi dates have gotten second dates.

filled! I’m looking forward to the results!

i grew up in church, this is part of the curriculum

my low effort contribution

Luna oi is a Vietnamese YouTuber who does a good job at explaining these definitions. This video is about dialectical and historical materialism, but she explains the base and superstructure pretty well. https://youtu.be/HAEgTPK-oiU