She may have been enjoying the sounds outside, she may be an introvert and was recharging, she may have been thinking her own thoughts and wanted to finish, maybe the coffee had not finished doing it’s work - sometimes silence is not about being angry or feeling distant from someone. She did tell you she didn’t want to talk about anything. Maybe that’s why she got upset?

I don’t know about dirt floors, but my mom grew up with an outhouse.

Love it!!

This made me snort

Is there a way to see what specific instances each instance has defederated from? Just curious