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  • I just don’t think it’s healthy to assume every man is a psycho and then make them prove otherwise, especially if you want to try dating them

    It’s a bit difficult to determine just from online interactions, don’t you think?

    “Dating” doesn’t mean what it used to mean. These days “dating” means “I swiped right, we talked for an hour or two and now we’re meeting for the first time”.

    As long as the other person is upfront about it, I wouldn’t be weirded out if they brought a friend to feel better, honestly, no fucking clue who would have an issue with that. Because it’s not about “all men”, it’s about “I’m meeting a stranger”.

    If you’re the person who sees that situation as an attack, you’re better off leaving the other party alone.



  • Sounds like setting yourself up to create conflict in a relationship that doesn’t even exist yet.

    WTF are you on about, mate?

    There’s no other way to read this besides “I think you are a horrible person so I need protection on our public date, why am I going on a date with a horrible person? I wanted dinner”

    There absolutely is another way to read it and it’s: “there are lots of horrible people and I wanted to make sure you’re not one of them”.

    I guess you reacting to this post in that way puts you bang in the middle of one of those two categories…
















  • No, by doing something else with his life because developing an app is not an all-encompassing behavior.

    Buddy, are you suggesting that software developers should “do something else to earn money”?

    Are you high right now?

    No, I’m just not a useful idiot going to bat for people making money off of me.

    Go ahead. Quote the bit where anyone in this thread is batting for anybody.

    I, personally, have made significantly more complicated apps than what you’re defending

    I’m becoming fairly certain that you are high. What exactly am I defending…?

    If we can do it, why can’t this scumbag?

    We can’t have a discussion if you don’t understand some simple facts of life. Such as: “people need to eat”, or “eating costs money”, or “not everybody has the privilege of being a software developer as a side-gig”, or “not everybody wants or can be a farmer”.

    Please, tell me more about how ignorant and innocent you are. It’s cute and predictable.

    Get sober, then read what you wrote again.