• Coreidan@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    For real? That’s both sad and creepy.

    I hope the other person in the relationship bailed for their own sake.

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      9 months ago

      That’s both sad and creepy.

      How is it either of those things? Let people fuck who they want to fuck as long as it is consentual, who cares?

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        9 months ago

        “Hey babe. I made a mistake. I want to get back together.”

        “Sure no problem! Me too! I just need to plow through this list of dudes I’m gonna fuck first.”

        Seems like an awfully shitty thing to do to someone that’s genuinely interested in you.

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          9 months ago

          You cheat on someone: you’re a worthless piece of shit.

          You don’t get back together with someone because you want to have sex with other people first: you’re sad and creepy.

          One can never win when it comes to sex in a puritanical society, unless they very faithfully only have sex with one person.

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          9 months ago

          Sounds kinda hot to me. To spice things up, I’d want to hear all about it when we get back together.

          E: Kink shamers, the lot of you! I’d rather be with an experienced lady over someone who’s only been with me.

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          9 months ago

          Right and clearly women sleeping with more men devalues them? Or what is your problem?

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            9 months ago

            My point is if I’m interested in someone (man or women) I’m going to have zero interest in waiting for them to fuck a bunch of people first.

            Why would I? I clearly don’t mean anything to you if you need to fuck a bunch of people first.

            You just be young or have never been in a loving relationship before.

            If I told my girlfriend right before I started dating her that before we start I need to go bang 15 women, should have told me to get lost. And rightfully so.

            I can’t help but find this to be a sad reality.

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              9 months ago

              Lol I am not young and have been in several decade-long relationships but sure go ahead assuming.

              I clearly don’t mean anything to you if you need to fuck a bunch of people first.

              Thats the real sad mindset I think. You are clearly tying value to number of sexual partners.

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        9 months ago

        Making a list of people to fuck can be a bit creepy for exactly the reason you mentioned: consent—or the absence of it.