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Cake day: August 7th, 2023

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  • Well if you have romantic inclinations and no reason not to pursue (one or both of you is in a relationship or youve been told no before)- you ask them out.

    Otherwise you say nothing. If there’s no path romantically forward, what benefit would it serve?

    Do you care that I saw someone attractive the other day? If so, why didn’t you ask me yet? Well, i’l wager you don’t really care, and if there’s no path forward for either of you here, this person cares as much about whether you like them as you care how much I like someone - which is not at all.







  • I was listening to a podcast the other day and it was saying that in some culture, I forget which, “a man” was defined as “wears a mustache and has a big hat” - because why wouldnt you have those if you could?

    Funny how culture thinks it’s the first and last word of a definition

    So anyway, this guy has a beard and hat but no mustache, therefore not a man.